Love
It’s a crazy thing innit? How it changes your life, sometimes in a
good way and sometimes in a bad way. Either way it leaves an impact on you.
Right now as im typing this out, im having a conversation with a very close
friend. Both confused as anything. Both thinking we know whats right. Honestly
we never know whats right. It’s a gamble, a leap of faith.
Being young girls, turning 20 in about 2 months, life can be a lil
roller coaster-ish. Surrounded by others whose life seems pretty “perfect”, we
tend to keep comparing our lives to theirs. Little do we know that behind those
smiles and joys, there may be a person seeking for love. All hidden behind a
beautiful façade.
It can be pretty difficult, seeing almost everyone around you falling
in love and getting into relationships. Sometimes you tend to question
yourself, and blame yourself. Wanting to experience it if you have not
experienced it before. And if you had, then missing it. Badly.
Now now…girls! What is one thing worst than a break up? Yeap, having a
crush on someone and then yeap…everything that comes with it, only to finally
realize that in the end it isn’t gonna work out. There is a reason it’s called
a ‘crush’ girls…. The whole purpose of it is to crush you and your heart when
it ends. Okay no not all the time,some people do get lucky. But I must say, the process can be really
exciting though. All the sneaky glances, the massive stalking, the ‘I’m flying’
feeling, that happens the first time he smiles
at you or says hie to you. When your heart literally drops to the
ground.Woahhh unexplainable. But then
again, it leaves you crushed, so….
When things like this happen, it just gets really frustrating. You
don’t seem to understand what’s happening to your life. You feel like this is
the end of it. You will never find love, you will never be loved, and you
should just come to terms with it. But no! Everyone deserves love, and every
girl will be loved. It just takes the right person to see it.
Now I’m not going to tell you to stop thinking about it, and don’t let
it affect you, etc etc. because I know that won’t help. You can’t possibly stop
thinking about it when it’s all around you. But yes, you’ve got to believe.
Believe in yourself. And the most important thing, something that I realized
and learnt is that self love is utmost important. Yes, you have to start by
accepting and loving yourself. Feed your soul with love, pamper and spoil
yourself. Unleash the confidence, bring out the real you! You can’t expect
anyone else to love you, if you do not love yourself. Give yourself the love
and attention it deserves. Do things you love doing. That makes you feel happy. Surround yourself
with people you love, with people who bring the best out of you, who can make
you laugh and smile.
Believe not just in yourself, but in God, whatever religion you may
come from. Believe that you have a purpose. That everything will happen in your
time. This is your journey, and it’s going to be different from the rest.
That’s the whole purpose of this journey. The whole purpose of life. So make
the most of what you already have, and the rest will come to you at the right
time. Live life on your terms and just spread smiles :)
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